The relation between you and your parent in law is really important because you are not getting married only with their child because when you marry someone you also marry his or her family. It is usual that the relationship between both sides sometimes goes wrong because every body has different life and behavior before. For example your parents in law are the people who have old fashioned thinking and that thinking is not suitable with what you want because you are modern person. This is really complicated but it needs to be solved easily so it will not give you bad effect in the future. When you solve your problem with your parents in law then you will get good situation at your house especially if you live in the same house with them. It is not easy way to be taken when you want the best result in your family life especially if your husband is not strong enough to fight for your small family willing. But the stability in relationship between you and your parents in law will be good factor that supporting your husband or wife because he or she will think you can accept his or her parents. I’ve experienced this problem inside my fiancé’s house, between her brother’s wife and my fiancé’s parents.